If I am cynical of the brothers and sisters in my Church and get angry with them because they don't really "get" grace the way I do, does that mean I don't love my brothers? "Whoever does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?"
Here I go examining my sincerity again.
I just wish we would come together and learn more and more about God's grace. But that's not my call.