I don't get why there are a lot of Christians who start out in the grace of God and eventually go down a road that is no where in the Scripture. I think it's easy to get caught up in the fact that God is love that we forget sin is sin and God is also anger and wrath. Not that any believer in Christ will ever experience judgment from their Father. No way. But to say that people outside of the faith are saved is a lie people who start reasoning with their own understanding come to. Where is that in the Gospel?
They reason God is love. Yes, He is agape. But His agape is only possible because of the justice poured on Christ Jesus. I've mentioned this saying before that Jesus Himself said and I think every believer who toys with the idea of the heresy of universalism should think about. "All sins will be forgiven the children of man. But, blasphemy against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven."
It is those of faith that are sons of Abraham. The Scripture is clear that the unbelieving will have their part in the lake of fire that burns forever and ever.
I'm not trying to rain on anyones parade. I'm simply stating truth, whether or not it feels good. It's the truth. Telling people they're saved even if they have never believed the Gospel does them no help at all. Jesus said whoever would cause one of the little ones who believe in Him to sin, it would be better that that person should have a millstone tied around his neck and drowned in the depth of the sea.
God is love and God has lavished His grace on us. But only because of His Son, Jesus Christ.